"Why is he with her?" Some people will say due to the fact he is with a "big girl". But is it really a problem that he is with a girl that isn't society ideal of beauty which is a size 2. For years I always wondered why was it always such a big deal when others see guys with big girls? I've dealt with it and I never understood why, yes Iam a big girl and yes I deserved to be love too. Why can't I be love? Because I have cellulite on my things, rolls on my back and because my stomach isn't flat. What is the big deal?
I've noticed a lot of petite women post this picture numerous of times on social media as if something is wrong with them with the caption saying " What's wrong with me" or "how can she get a man but I can't". Basically saying " She's fat and unattractive while Iam in shaped and pretty but I can't get a man". What people fail to realize is it's not always about looks. So what if she's big with no hair and round dark circles around her eyes. Ever thought that her personality and character made him fall in love with her. She probably treats him like a king where you would probably take advantage of him. It's about the quality of a women, not her looks. There are plenty of women questioning why they are single without even noticing that their personality and character isn't appealing to a man to wife her up.
I don't have a specific preference when it comes to dating guys, as long as you are ambitious, can make me happy and be the man that I need then Iam fine. Iam not into he has to be a specific complexion and has to be a certain height. I've dated guys who were 6'4, 300lbs and also dated guys who were 5'7, 250lbs. I never was really into looks and I just wanted to be with someone who didn't care about my size, only the size of my heart. I just couldn't be with someone who was ashamed of me but I won't lie I did once or twice but that's a whole different blog post. But I got looks, stares, and heard comments all due to me being a big girl and being with someone who people think it's a problem being with a girl my size.
It has to stop, LOVE DOESN'T COME WITH A SIZE LIMIT!!! Everyone deserve to be loved by someone no matter what their size is. So if a girl is over a size 16, she's too big to be loved by someone? That's the way it seems and it shouldn't be that way at all. We are all capable to love and have someone love us for who we are, just the way we are. I dislike the fact that people stare or say mean things when they see someone who is plus size with their love one. I know it used to affect me, despite the fact I was happy being with my significant other, it used to bother me. Now I don't care, I hold his hands even tighter to let them know we good and yes he loves all this fluffiness.
We get judged for everything even being in love or someone being in love with us. Why can't we all love each other and be happy for one another. Why can't you smile at another female when you see her with her significant other instead of giving her a dirty look. I love to see others happy and I love to see others in love. There are some females dealing with their insecurities by not even letting a man truly love them because of their size. It's hard enough for them to believe that they deserve to be love and when they do believe it, someone out there will critique them.
It's not all about looks, why would you even want to be with someone if it's all about looks? What about their character, personality, the way they treat their families, their goals and ambition, what about all the characteristics found in someone? I guess that doesn't matter if you're worrying about someone being with you because you are prettier than the other female that has a man. You have to be with someone that can make you happy, their looks can't make you happy. It's bad enough we live in a world where we are judged for everything as I said before, don't forget about the characteristics of someone and let them go because they wasn't attractive. 9 out of 10 times those who aren't attractive are the ones to be the one that can actually make us happy.
Big girls, skinny girls, it doesn't matter what the size of your jeans are. It doesn't matter how big you are, you need and deserve to be loved. LOVE DOESN'T COME WITH A WEIGHT LIMIT!!!! So next time you see a female that is bigger than you and she is with her significant other, acknowledge her instead of giving her looks and wondering why she has a man and you don't. My advice is instead of wondering why she has a man and you don't explains to me that you have things to work on for yourself so a man can actually be with you and make you happy. Everyone Needs Love, I Love You!!!
A Confident Love From Me To You.
Xoxo, Yanika
I was with a man for 10 years of my life. I was dedicated from day one. Faithful, loyal, sex when he wanted, unconditional love, helped and supported his dreams and goals. I gave him my time and energy and anything else I could yo show my love and I still got abused, I still got cheated on, I still got humiliated, and he ended up leaving me for a larger female that knew I existed. Im not a fit person myself, Im thick but not fat. Now I'm left to pick up the pieces. So what's the excuse for a women in my shoes?
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